NAS: Spiritual Motherhood

NAS: Spiritual motherhood

Most of us single ladies aren’t mothers here on Earth, but that doesn’t mean we’re not mothers at all. Christianity has a long tradition of “parents” who become our leaders, protectors, guides, and counselors by spiritual means instead of physical. Do you have spiritual children? Godchildren, adults you sponsored through the RCIA, your close friends’ kids, or students? How do you build relationships with them as a mother? Have you ever spiritually adopted an unborn baby in danger of abortion, or spiritually adopted any such persons as co-workers, acquaintances, priests or religious? Are all women called to be mothers?


The concept of spiritual motherhood is fairly new to me, so I hope my thoughts make sense. I first heard of the concept when reading Discovering the Feminine Genius: Every Woman’s Journey by Katrina J. Zeno. I love the suggestions posed in the prompt for ways to be a spiritual mother. Although I am an earthly single mother to a child, I believe all women are called to be mothers. While we all may not give birth or adopt a child, there are many heartening ways to enrich, nurture and live out the calling of a mother.

To me, the calling of a mother is about


Laying down your life

Providing an impressionable child with the tools to succeed

Unconditional love

Loving when it’s difficult

Joyfully living out the gospel

Clinging to the cross for strength

Whether you are a Godmother to a beloved child,a teacher, a nurse or a nanny for an assemblage of kiddos, one aspect I have learned from the amazing spiritual work from St. John Paul II’s Theology of The Body is we are called to freely give ourselves in love. While I used to think of Totb as being writen for married couples, I have learned it’s about who we uniquely are as men and women.

Whether it’s helping a little one realize the importance of boundaries, caring for a sick child or conveying to a young adult the importance of virtue, we are giving of ourselves; we are sharing what we have learned through our life experiences. We are passing down traditions and teachings which will help our beloved get to heaven.

Just as priests are like father-figures here on earth, I believe the same can be said for spiritual mothers.

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4 thoughts on “NAS: Spiritual Motherhood

  1. There is so much to be learned from the Theology of the Body. I use those principles all the time to live out my life as a woman, even if not a wife or a mother here on Earth.

    As I was reading your list of motherly qualities, it struck me how much they are also the qualities you’d want in a spouse: self-sacrifice, loving despite difficulty, clinging to the cross. I guess that makes sense, since children are usually the fruit of marriage. If you already have those qualities as a parent, that can only help with marriage!

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    1. Thank you so much for making this connection for me. It wasn’t something that crossed my mind. I mean, at least when I was writing the post. I was primarily thinking along the lines of an earthly mother, but your observation about how it can also translate into a marriage is very informative.


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