To fall in love

“To fall in love with God is the greatest romance; to seek Him the greatest adventure; to find Him, the greatest human achievement.” St. Augustine


Happy super frosty Saturday,

That time of year has once again arrived. The weekend of Valentine’s Day with all it’s icky over-commercialism, sweet candy hearts, stuffed animals and fragrant flowers. Although I could always lament being single with a pint of Ben and Jerry’s cookie dough ice-cream and a sappy Nicholas Sparks movie or jam out to Taylor Swift who never disappoints, I’m hopeing this entry is a bit more mature. 🙂

Today’s post is about gifts which surpass presents.

Often I’ve read blog entries from women who have written to the men who have broken their hearts. While I also have been through unexpected endings of significant romantic relationships, I am writing from the perspective of viewing my heartbreaks as a chance for growth and renewed strength. I have had many years to reflect over what I’d like to tell the men who were put in my life for a reason or season.

Here is what I have to say:


  • Thank you: you brought me closer to God
  • Thank you: you reinforced I need to always love Jesus more than my fellow flawed humans
  • Thank you: you revealed to me my inner strength and proved that I could bounce back from difficulties
  • Thank you: you showed me how beautiful it is to love and be loved
  • Thank you: you helped me set standards for relationships and were an example that it’s respectable to actively live out my Catholic faith and values
  • Thank you: you brought me closer to our Blessed momma Mary through the Rosary
  • Thank you: you taught me not to solely depend on myself and others, rather the unconditional holy love of God will only and always satisfy the longing in my soul
  • Thank you: you accepted me for who I was and encouraged me to become a wiser, stronger woman
  • Thank you: you were put in my life to teach me unique lessons. I will always be grateful for your charity, wisdom and friendship. These gifts are more important than any tangible present
  • Thank you: your witty personality and kindness are characteristics I pray for in my future husband
  • Thank you: you have provided me a beautiful, unique soul to always pray for
  • Thank you: you enriched my passion for books and music
  • Thank you: whether it was the peace of adoration or the serenity of the natural spring, you imparted to me the lesson that so much can be said in silence
  • Thank you: you provided me unique memorable experiences
  • Thank you: you brought me one step closer to the one I pray I was created to complement
  • Thank you: you listened to where God led you despite my stubborn resistance to let you go
  • Thank you: you will always be a part of my life story
  • Thank you: you pushed me out of my comfort zone in order for me to climb mountains I never thought I could traverse
  • Thank you: you were placed in my life for a reason and season to which God only knows
  • Thank you: if it’s God’s will, you fortified my heart for the next man I date
  • Thank you: you taught me being single is not a state in life, rather it is a unique journey
  • Thank you for the above and so much more.

“Sometimes the only way the good Lord can get into some hearts is to break them.” Fulton J. Sheen


“Totus tuus ego sum!” (I am all yours), until next time,



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